2nd Moms

          In SCA, I (Ashlyn) often feel like we are all one big family. We are so blessed to be immersed in an atmosphere of love. That is the true blessing of the body of Christ! But, not only do I feel as if I am surrounded by “adopted” sisters (and brothers); I am surrounded by “adopted” moms, who I have fondly named “2^nd Moms.” These moms would have open arms for all of us.

Two moms in particular come to my mind—Mrs. R and Mrs. T.

I have known Mrs. R since I was born…literally. Mrs. R and my mom went to highschool together, and have stayed friends ever since. Therefore, this adopted mom has always been in my life. Because of pure the amount of time I’ve known her, I feel like I can be totally myself around her. When you first get to know someone, it can be hard to feel like you can be yourself around someone, especially adults. But, the comfort that comes with just knowing someone for a long period of time helps a lot. You may or may not know your new “big sister” that well, and it may take some time to feel completely comfortable around her. That should just be motivation to keep trying and keep opening yourself up to her!

While I haven’t known Mrs. T for quiet as long as Mrs. R, I instantly loved her. Mrs. T has three wonderful boys, but is lacking a girl. So, I like pretending I am her “adopted daughter.” Long conversations don’t have to just be with highschool friends. I have found that some of my most enjoyable conversations have been with Mrs. T. When you find something in common with an adult, they can offer wisdom, advice, and can actually be fun to be around. Mrs. T is not only my friend, but also a teacher—of extemp, Spanish, and life. I’m so thankful for her!

Get to know not only your SCA Sister, but her mom too! Reach throughout the generations. These women have so much to give and teach us if we just give them a chance. And, we can be a blessing in their lives as well! When we go off to college one day, I think we will realize how immensely blessed we are to be surrounded by a loving body of Christ. I have been blessed by my teachers, my mom’s friends, my friends’ moms, etc.—shout out to Mrs. S, the other Mrs. S., Mrs. G, Mrs. C, Mrs. N, and Mrs. B! J These are truly Godly women, and there are many more whom I do not have time to list.

Even beyond our SCA moms, we can look for Godly friendship and wisdom within our own families. Tessa and I have been blessed with kind grandmothers who take an interest in our lives and pray for us daily. Aunts (and cousins too) can also be special friends. Even one of my good friend’s grandmas has played a special role in my life! :)

And, perhaps the greatest blessing of all would be our own moms…stayed tuned for a tribute to our mom!

Thank you, 2^nd moms for blessing me! It is our hope and prayer that all of us at SCA will grow closer together—moms and daughters!